Want to build 

confidence and resilience in your teen?

We've got tools to help you! 


Self-talk, outlook, grit...these shape your teen's life. 

If you aren't influencing your teenager's mindset, the world around them will be their influence.

Learn more.

Built by a Middle School Principal and a Confidence Coach, who are also parents to 6 kids in their blended family.

Did you know that teens who feel supported by their parents are 70% less likely to suffer from depression. 

Open communication between parents and teens increases resilience and positivity. 

Kids can be hard to crack, especially in those teen years. There will be frustration and awkward silence. There will be one word answers and 'I don't know's. But DON'T stop connecting when it seems like they have no interest. They want to know you care, they need to know you believe in them.

Does this sound like your teen?

  • Talks negative about themselves and doesn't give themselves any credit.
  • Shows big emotions, that don't always fit the scenario. 
  • Scared to try new things, shies away when things 'feel hard'.
  • Struggles with friendships or working through hard feelings. 
  • They are WAY to hard on themselves.
  • Wants to achieve big things and will need grit and motivation to achieve them.

A Mindset Shift Will Help, And You Can Lead Them to This.

The true keys to success are the ability to:  

Control our reactions
to life events

Overcome stumbling blocks in life

Face new & unknown 
situations

Keep our mind focused on the good

Our tools will help you: 

  • Be an encouragement through daily texts 
  • Have more meaningful conversations with a weekly keyword and conversation questions
  • Push your teen to grow with a monthly action challenge

Your teen will learn to self-reflect, articulate their thoughts and you'll grow a stronger connection. Like learning any subject or sport, building strong mindset skills takes time, repetition and consistency. 

So what's inside?

Tools tailored for parents of teens. Our intentional and regular prompts take the guess work out of what to say and how to build up your teen's outlook. 

DAILY

Mindset Messages &  Message Library 

We'll email you each Sunday 5 encouraging messages (one for each weekday). You can then copy and pass along to your teen, being an encouraging voice to them. 

Extra bonus - we think these message will help you as a parent grow, too!

WEEKLY

Conversation Prompts

Each week you'll get a  "Word of the Week" with 3 questions your family can talk through over dinner. 

It's fun to see how each person may answer the same question differently. Your family will grow in understanding each other and get to see things from another perspective.

MONTHLY

Challenge to Take Action

Learning isn't complete  without action. These actions help you spread kindness, build positive relationships, take care of your mental wellbeing and care for your physical body.

The whole family can participate in these and share your experiences throughout the month!

This isn't just for parents...

grandparents, coaches and teachers use this too.

  • Parents - Introduce healthy mindset concepts through your child's phone daily. 
  • Grandparents - Encourage your grandkids without struggling to find the words.
  • Coaches - Uplift your team's character development with daily messages. 
  • Teachers - Post a daily mindset concept on your board for students.

Ready to get started?

Monthly Membership

$5/mo

What you'll get:

  • Weekly email with mindset message for the week
  • A library of text messages, updated every month - so you can pick your own topic
  • Weekly Conversation Prompts so your family can dive into deeper conversations
  • Monthly Action Challenge - don't just learn mindset concepts, put them into ACTION!
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Annual Membership

$50/yr

What you'll get:

  • Weekly email with mindset message for the week
  • A library of text messages, updated every month - so you can pick your own topic
  • Weekly Conversation Prompts so your family can dive into deeper conversations
  • Monthly Action Challenge - don't just learn mindset concepts, put them into ACTION!
  • Get 2 months FREE with annual membership
  • PLUS a welcome surprise to your mailbox.
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What people are saying...

Jessica B.

I love this! The real magic happens when I know what's going on with my daughter and I can pick a message that correlates. It really helps the lesson sink in. And I never have to worry about find the right words, just look through this month's options and copy and paste!

Ryan D.

This is now part of my morning routine - login, find a message, send to my sons. It's easy and it gives us something to talk about on the way home from school. 

Michelle S.

Did You See My Text is a game-changer for us parents! The messages are like little nuggets of wisdom that help me get through to my teen. It's made talking about tough stuff way easier and brought us closer. So glad I found this!

Frequently Asked Questions

Contact us by text:
785-501-2633

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